A Day in the Life

4a: Cupcake wakes up. I nurse her. I bring her into bed for morning snuggles. We both fall back asleep.

5a: My alarm goes off. Cupcake and my husband are still sleeping, but I’m off to my first day back at the gym since my early pregnancy. I’m scared. I putter around the house before working up the courage to leave.

5:30a: Get to gym. Nice girl assists me in signing back up. I hop on a treadmill and run a mile at my high school pace (which admittedly is quite slow!), but I’m happy. I walk until I get to 20 minutes total. I want an easy peasy first day so I don’t get discouraged. I stretch and do ab exercises. I come home because I really need to nurse Cupcake (you mamas know what I mean).

6:45a: Cupcake is ecstatic to see me! I almost cry from joy at the reunion. This is the first time since she’s been born that I really feel like I took time for me. Big lesson- it was okay . Everyone survived. My husband and Cupcake had the greatest daddy-daughter time. It was good for everyone. I shower.

7:15a: I make us breakfast. Cupcake eats oatmeal, which she loves more than almost anything.  Except her spoon. She really loves her spoon.IMG_2536.JPG


IMG_2535.JPG8:15a: I have been trying to find the perfect dairy-free cupcake recipe for my mom’s birthday on Saturday. Today I make my third attempt.

While the latest batch is cooking, Cupcake shares an apple with us. We can no longer have apples to ourselves. She loves apples!

9a: I set my husband and I up for a little morning cake-tasting!

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9:15a: My husband leaves for the gym while Cupcake and I complete errands and play.

10a: Cupcake naps while I complete today’s chore: Thursday-Tub/Toilets! We have a lot of company coming over the course of the weekend, so I’m glad it’s sparkling clean now!

10:30a: Cupcake wakes up. Husband comes home. Cupcake crawls around the house wherever we go. We make lunch and hang out. Cupcakes chases our kitties around the house.

12n: Husband leaves for work. Cupcake and I decide to go to our (my) favorite store- Target! I am sorely disappointed that I do not find what I am looking for.


1pm: Go to play date at park with friends.
Cupcake loves the swings, but loves staring at the cutie pie little girls on the swings next to us more!

3:30p: Cupcake naps for only 10 minutes on the way home. She won’t go back down for her real nap. I am prepared for baby meltdown. Instead I am surprised with a very happy and playful baby!


4:30p: The mail comes and Cupcake receives a card! She loved opening it!


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4:47p: Cupcake stands without assistance! No picture because I was amazed- she only just turned seven months old! So cool!

5:10p: My best friend gets out of work and we have a phone date. Husband comes home. Olivia tries to take all the books off the book case.

5:20p: In order to make room in the fridge for all of the big cooking I will be doing this weekend, we have leftovers for dinner. The chicken drumsticks I made earlier in the week taste even better tonight!

6:10p: We start Cupcake’s bedtime routine. Chris gives her a bubble bath while I clean up dinner. I love hearing their giggles during this special daddy-daughter time! Then, I come back to help with cozying her up in a fluffy towel, changing her, and brushing those cute little chiclets!

6:45p: We come upstairs, give her reflux meds, and I nurse her. Typically, I nurse her, we read a few books, and then I nurse her again quickly before she falls asleep. Since she’s barely napped today, she falls asleep while I nurse her the first time. I’m sad to miss out on story time, but glad she’ll get the sleep she needs.

7:15p: Chris and I watch DVR’d Modern Family. We chat about our plans for tomorrow and finalize weekend plans. We watch Mike&Molly reruns.

9:15p: I’m exhausted. I lay out all of my stuff for the gym for tomorrow. I make sure I have an orange and black outfit because I celebrate holidays in a big way! I cannot WAIT to share this holiday with Cupcake tomorrow!

Rosemary Pork Chops

So today started an awesome next few weeks where my husband only works half days! It is amazing to have him home and both Cupcake and I adore it!

One downside is it became 4:30 and I realized we were having so much fun I hadn’t thought to plan out dinner! I had no clue what we had in the house or what I was going to make.

I had pulled out pork chops from the freezer last night in anticipation of making one meal, but we were out of half the ingredients. So it was up to me to experiment! Let me just say, I think it came out pretty darn good.

4 boneless pork chops
2 onions, chopped
4 T apple cider vinegar
Garlic Powder
1 T Olive oil

1. Generously season pork chops with rosemary, garlic powder, salt and pepper
2. Heat pan with Olive oil over medium heat. Add pork chops. Cook on one side for approx. 8 minutes, flip once and cook throughly.
3. While pork chops are cooking, add chopped onions and apple cider vinegar to a second pan. Sprinkle with garlic and rosemary. Heat on low, stirring frequently. Remove from heat when soft.

My secret trick: Trim a piece of cooked pork fat when flipping chops. Add to onions during cooking for extra flavor. Remove prior to serving!





My Favorite Thing About the Holidays

There are just two months until Christmas! Anyone who knows me knows I adore the holiday season. I never get upset when I see Christmas things in stores early!

This time of year truly is my favorite. I love watching the world around my burst into color as the leaves change. I love the smell of the crisp air. The cooler weather makes me want to surround myself with loving family and friends somewhere warm and cozy.

It’s hard to pick just one favorite thing about the holidays. I love the fun of it, starting with Halloween. It is a simple holiday that requires none of the stress of the rest of the holiday season. I also really love the thought that on Halloween, you go out and purchase treats for your neighbors whom you may rarely interact with. It’s just so simple and so happy.

Who doesn’t love the food of the holidays? Well, maybe every dieter out there, but you can make delicious and healthy foods, too! I love bringing out those special family recipes reserved for this time of year.

I also love the music! Christmas music warms my soul. Year-round, when I’m upset, a little cookie baking and Christmas music revives me like almost nothing else. It’s fun and happy and I can’t get enough! I’m already counting down the days until it’s on the radio!

This year will be a bit more special, though. It’s Cupcake’s first holiday season and I cannot wait to share with her all the magic that it holds. Coming together with family and friends is even more meaningful to me now that I have her.

I wandered around the store the other day and we stumbled upon some Christmas decorations already up! I think she’s hooked 🙂


Easy, Edible Oatmeal Playdough

Today is a dreary autumn day. As was yesterday. And the day before.

I actually quite enjoy the drizzly fall weather, but this stay at home mom does not like to stay at home all day! I also do not like to waste money. We fill our days with trips to the library and walks around the neighborhood. We go grocery shopping and run errands.

I did not feel like schlepping Cupcake in and out of stores while trying not to get rained on. The only thing with a parking garage is the mall, and again, I like to save my pennies.

So what the heck can you do with a seven month old after they’ve played with the same toys all week? Introducing edible oatmeal Playdough!

Cupcake has slowly been introduced to solids. Girl takes after her mama with most of her food preferences. One of her favorites is oatmeal. Oatmeal is also mushy and gushy and has a fun texture. So, I thought it’d be perfect.

To avoid the lumpiness of traditional oatmeal, I used the grain miller attachment on my food processor to make the oatmeal into a fine powder. I also used instant oatmeal with nothing added to it (no flavor, sugar, salt- just plain) because that’s what we give Cupcake. I personally prefer the plain oatmeal for kids, but to each their own!

1/2 c instant plain oatmeal (ground to fine powder)
1 c water

Mix oatmeal powder and water in microwave safe bowl. Microwave on high 1 minute. A solid dough-like substance will start to solidify on the bottom of the bowl, with liquid on top. Mix well. Heat additional minute and repeat mixing until fully blended.

“Dough” will be very hot. Allow to cool to not burn little hands.

Since Cupcake has not been introduced to many foods, I only used oatmeal and water, which results in a very squishy “dough.” This was okay for me because she can’t really build anyway and was definitely going to put it all in her mouth (see pictures below!).

For older children, add flour to warmed mixture to get desired texture. It won’t taste great (which is probably good!) but it will hold together.

Do you have any good recipes for edible dough using other ingredients? Eventually Cupcake will be able to have more foods and with winter fast approaching, I’m sure we’ll have many more days of making playdough ahead!



Homemade Chicken Noodle Soup

Today is a bleak autumn day in New England. I love it! It is made for cozy sweaters and warm socks. It is also made for chicken noodle soup.

I’ve never made my own soup. My mom makes a magnificent soup, so I was scared to attempt it. But today was made for soup!

2 32 oz boxes of Chicken Broth
3 cups cooked shredded chicken
3 stalks of celery, chopped
1 c baby carrots, chopped
1 c uncooked egg noodles
Garlic powder
Onion powder

Put all ingredients in pot over low heat. Season to taste. Cook 30 minutes .

Makes eight 1-cup servings


I served ours with biscuits. It was amazing! Perfect for a chilly day. I will definitely be attempting this again, soon.

What ingredients do you add to your chicken noodle soup? Leave me a comment below so I can try it for next time!

The Most Important Decision You Ever Made

My friend Matt posted this on his blog today about the most life-changing decision he ever made: to work at McDonalds. Matt is an accomplished teacher who helped from my career, in addition to being a wonderful author. His Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend may be one of my most favorite books ever. Seriously, go read his stuff!

Anyways, it got me thinking about what my moment would be.

It was deciding to go to UConn (go huskies!!!).

If you know me, you’d know that I don’t like a lot of attention and get embarrassed quite easily. However, on the day I moved in my freshman year, I saw a girl that I knew walking through the quad of her housing complex. I yelled out to her with all of my might. People definitely stared, but I didn’t care. I needed someone I knew!

She quickly became my best friend at college and I would never have survived without her! Reaching out to her lead me on the path towards my life.

Devra started dating someone she met in college. He went to high school with a guy named Ran, who had coincidentally been in my eighth grade English class before moving away.

At a summer party at Devra’s boyfriend’s house, Ran and I got to talk. I had gotten out of a serious relationship a few months earlier and was looking to start dating again. Ran had just started medical school and told me that he knew someone that would be great for me. I thought he was crazy and didn’t think much more of it.

Weeks later, Ran invited me out to a dinner with a group of friends. Little did I know, my future husband would be at that dinner. I sat across from him and, although there were 15 people there, all I really remember is talking to him.

By the time of our first kiss, we knew we were going to get married. We were engaged less than a year later. My life couldn’t be more wonderful and joyous because I married Chris, which gave us Cupcake.

So many decisions lead me to this beautiful life, but it all started with UConn and Devra!


Transformation Tuesday

Well this is transformation Tuesday and usually people write about their weight loss or something like that.

I’m going to bring you a different type of transformation.


Day 2 of Momming vs. Day 144
(Yes, I counted)

The picture on the left is our first full day together as mommy and baby. It was the day she earned her nickname from her big cousin who insisted she was either Gilbert or Cupcake. I’m glad we got that settled 🙂

On Day 2, I was feeling excited, overwhelmed and in a tiny bit of pain. I was very in love, but not in the overwhelming way yet. I needed time at home to get to know her. I loved all of our doctors and nurses, but I felt so unsure of myself with them all around. Would I be able to do it on my own? Would I be an okay mom? Who was this little person and did I really get to keep her? Why the f did nursing hurt this much and would I be able to stick it out? For real- I get to keep her?

On Day 144, I have transformed into the mama that I am. I know that little girl and I love her more than words can say. She is the brightest spot in my life. Cupcake knows to look for me when someone asks, “Where’s Mommy?” She knows who I am. And I know her. I know that little smile and her one dimple (just like me!). I know that giggle and those beautiful blue eyes (just like Daddy!). I have been blessed with nearly seven months of nursing her and am happily still going strong. I can decipher which cry means I don’t really need anything. Just pick me up and cuddle me and which means I’m just crying because I can’t make words yet. I’m okay. On Day 2, they all sounded the same.

I still am unsure at times, but I know now that there isn’t always a right answer. What works for Cupcake might not work for her someday future siblings. I am finding my way, momming the best that I can.

This is the happiest of transformations for me. I can’t wait to see what that little girl does next!